My Dearest Shosh and Jaialai,
Life has its challenges and obstacles, but nothing changes that most basic, fundamental, and unadulterated truth: you two are the best things that have ever happened to me. I am lucky to have you for my sons.
I love you with all my heart … always and forever. Not a day passes that you are not in my thoughts, and your absence do not weigh heavily on my heart.
Current circumstances conspire to keep us apart. But, that is only a temporary condition. Know that everyday, I am doing my best to fight my way back to you so that I may be there to help you grow into the amazing men you will become.
These posts are but temporary solutions to fill the gap until my return. Through them, I hope to give you guidance and continue the lessons that were started from the moment you took your first breath — and took my breath away.
You will find that the overarching theme for this blog (and my life — and, hopefully, yours as well) is that WE SHOULD STRIVE TO LEAVE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE FOR HAVING LIVED. That’s my Golden Rule. Consequently, the Corollary is to HELP IF YOU CAN, BUT DO NO HARM IF YOU CANNOT HELP.
Specifically, how do you make the world a better place? First, be the best YOU can be. No one can ask for more of you.
To achieve that goal, I share with you lessons I’ve learned about how to live well and what it takes to be successful in America. Note two things: (1) I am talking specifically about what it takes to achieve what is considered to be professional success in the U.S. and not elsewhere in the world; and, (2) the focus is on success as defined by society at large and not on your personal definition of success. Your definition may be different. That’s OK. But, know that if you chose that path, it would be a rougher road to hew. The choice remains yours.
Second, fight evil wherever you find it. This is your duty as a human being. We are our brothers’ and sisters’ keepers. If not us, than who? I am always mindful of the words of Martin Niemoller, the Protestant pastor who spoke out against the Nazi and suffered in the concentration camp as a result. He said,
First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Socialist.
Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Trade Unionist.
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Jew.
Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me.
Regarding my prescriptions for a life well-lived, all I can say is be brave, my sons. Be courageous enough to be the real you and the best you possible, despite the niggling comments of others. Be strong enough to stand up for yourselves and your visions. Be willing to fight for them. Also, fight injustice. Speak out against evil.
I know these are not small things I ask of you, but the world will tend towards disorder unless energy is expended to counteract the disorder. If not us, then who? We are the stewards of our world. Do try to leave it a better place by actively working to make your little corner of the world a bit better than when you first found it and by stopping those who try to destroy whatever beauty lies there. A world without beauty is not a world in which we are meant to live and thrive.
Regarding our situation, be patient, my sons. Be strong. Be good. The truth will prevail. I promise.
It took me five years to fight the Enron of Healthcare and expose their corrupt practices. How much longer will it take to fight and expose corrupt government officials?
Until we reunite, know that I love you always and forever.
All my love, always,