My dearest Shosh and Jaialai:
Today is a hard day. Actually, it’s been a hard week.
But, no one promised you life would be easy. If anyone did, he or she lied.
Life is a struggle … to do the right thing, to do the best you can under the circumstances, to be true to yourself despite pressures from all sides to conform to the wishes and demands of others, etc. As Anton Chekhov said, “Any idiot can deal with a crisis; it’s this day-to-day living that wears you out.”
Live well anyway. What choice have you? You could lie, cheat, steal, and boot-lick your way up, but there is no honor in that. Further, you will find that path unpleasant on the way up and that it never ends. Change is a constant, and you must constantly kiss ass to remain in the position. Is it really worth it? Would you rather live honestly or would you rather be a two-faced, back stabbing bootlicker who’d sell his own mother for profit?
Be true to yourself, my sons. It’s a tough road, but it is one that will enable you to look back on your life with pride. It will give your life meaning, and will give reasons for those who matter in the world to celebrate your life instead of long for your death. See, e.g., https://www.nytimes.com/2018/04/17/us/barbara-bush-dead.html; and, https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2018/04/18/southwest-airlines-victim-jennifer-riordan/527363002/.
Buck up! There will always be difficult days. But, strive to live such that more of your days are pleasant than unpleasant.
We are surrounded by ankle-biters, who will never amount to much. But, that is the nature of ankle-biters: they are often of low- or poor-skills, will never make much of their lives, and are best at pulling others down to their levels. Ignore them if you can, deal forcefully with them if you must, but spend most of your time pursuing your goals and dreams. Your success is what they fear most … because it makes more stark their failures.
Be you. Be the best you. Find joy wherever and whenever you can. Make it a priority to spend time with friends and people who love you. Make friends. Let nature nourish your body, heart, mind, and spirit. Experience life.
Love with all you heart and soul because that is the only way to love and live. To hedge your bet or to reciprocate only the feelings of another is to empower your mind to cage your heart and imprison it in fear. Don’t do that. Experience life. With great love may come great loss, but at least you would have loved and lost rather than to have never experience such miracle and exquisite beauty.
All my love, always. You are the best of me.
P.S., don’t buy the “fake news” crap that the dishonest espouses. Reputable newspapers like the New York Times and Washington Post build their reputations over decades, and have processes in place to protect the hard-earned good-will and reputation they cultivated. They make mistakes, as all humans are want to do, but they try to be fair and accurate. That is a lot more than others who won’t even bother to be fair, accurate, or even truthful.
Congratulations to the New York Times, Washington Post, Arizona Republic, and others on their Pulitzer Prizes. http://www.pulitzer.org/prize-winners-by-year/2018.