My dearest Shosh and Jaialai:
Heed the words of the wise. In life, you either work hard and try your best to achieve your dreams, or suffer the pangs of regret later in life for having never tried.
Look around you. How many do you see falling into the latter camp? Look at your cousins, aunts, and uncles on your mom’s side? They are roofers, fast food workers, warehouse laborers, sanitation department workers, etc. Those are honest jobs and there is nothing wrong with those types of jobs in and of themselves. But, the question is what else could they have made of themselves?
Life isn’t that difficult, really. The rules are fairly simple:
- Do your best.
- Be true to yourself.
- Treat others as they want to be treated.
You will find that many people in life are “minimally exceptional” not because of their abilities (or lack thereof), but because of their lack of efforts. They’d rather complain and blame others than strive to improve their lots in life. The good ones who do will rise to the top while the rest will gravitate towards their rightful places in life. The good ones will leave healthier legacies for their children while the minimally exceptional will leave their children the minimally exceptional. I introduced you to Mr. Ted, one of the best in our field. Who has your mom and her siblings introduced you to?
Where will you be in 10 years, boys? I know what your abilities are, but will you put in the effort to get yourselves there? I pray you will. That is how I taught you to be. Don’t be like your mom, who would rather veg out in front of the TV instead of taking you to the park, the library, the beach, or other places where you can exercise your bodies and your minds. Strive to be the best you.
All my love, always,